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I had the pleasure of first meeting Dr. Victor Teye at Arizona State University as a student in his travel and tourism class. Being from West Africa (born in Ghana and raised in Liberia), Dr. Victor Teye and I connected immediately. It was a privilege and honor to be taught by such a distinguished and accomplished professor. But not only was I blessed to have known Dr. Teye as a professor, I also came to know him as a very close family friend through his daughter Otuko.You see, I first met Otuko 20+ years ago in her father's class. I remember the day she arrived......looking so regal! Unbeknown to the both of us, Dr. Teye had already put a plan in motion (so to speak) to connect us in hopes that a friendship would develop. Not only did we hit it off well, but with a foundation of 20+ years, I can say Otuko is my best friend in the whole, wide world and we have Dr. Victor Teye to thank for it all. Dr. Teye was also a very kind and giving man. I remember more than one occassion where I would call Dr. Teye to pick his brain about this topic or that topic, and although I sensed he was extremely busy, he would always make time to talk and impart sage advice. A great light has been dimmed in this world with the passing of Dr. Victor Teye, but I know he is shining brightly in heaven above. May his soul rest in peace in the arms of our Lord and Savior. I pray God's comfort surrounds his Loved Ones in this sorrowful time and that they are encouraged by God's word that says in Isaiah 41: 10..."So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." My condolences to all on your loss.
]]>My story is of his last challenge in life, his cancer. I remember our lunch at Pure Foods in Kierland, the day he told me he had severe backache, spots on his lungs and an elevated PSA. I begged him not to return to Ghana the next day but to stay in Phoenix as I told him he could possibly have a serious problem, perhaps a cancer lurking. He, the invincible one, felt certain all would be fine in Ghana, which of course it was not. I searched for him for months, no answer to his phone or email. I used to kid him that he could run but he couldn’t hide; I would always find him. Eventually, I indeed found him in the ICU in Houston having survived his transport from Ghana and months of radiation, chemotherapy and life support in Houston. Thank the Lord for Otuko, his rescuer.
Here is his story of determination, bravery, love for his children, and the will to live. Victor couldn’t walk as the tumor in his spinal column paralyzed his nerves, yet he sat up with help and went to physical therapy everyday, enduring the intense pain, determined to walk again. When he couldn’t walk, he made himself walk. When the pain was unbearable he bore the pain. When told that his cancer was incurable, he determined to live. He and Otuko took charge of his path, researching all therapies, all drugs, all possibilities for improvement. He tried every single possible course of chemotherapy, proven or experimental, all as cheerfully as any patient I have ever known. He reported every single shrinking of the tumors as encouragement. He told me he had no idea how his body could handle the amount of poisons that were pumped into his body to kill the cancer cells. He went to the library to keep his mind sharp, he went to the gym to stay strong, he continued to laugh at my teasing about how cute he was since he ‘shaved his hair’. He said don’t laugh when he told me how he got stuck in a wheelchair at Walmart in the men’s room when the battery ran out. Of course I thought it was horribly hilarious. I gave him no breaks, determined to get him to laugh each time we talked. He was an inspiration. I told him that he should write a book to help others find their way. I said, ‘If I ever have to walk in your shoes, I only pray that I will be as strong and determined.’
As you all know, Victor was a planner. He planned for years and years for his retirement in Ghana. He planned for his grants to continue his work after retirement; he planned for a long life. A few weeks ago, we had lunch again at the Talking Stick resort. He reported that he was to see his doctor to decide whether to stop his chemotherapy. I teased him about the different styles of canes he used to assist his walking, told him to ‘loose the hat’; I loved him without it. I could see in his eyes how much pain and suffering he was enduring. As we parted, he said, ‘I always loved you Susan, take care until we meet again!’ I said, ‘Victor, I always loved you too’, knowing full well that this was the end. He knew that I knew because he was a planner.
Victor, we all loved you - me, my children, (Heather and Ryan), my grandson, (Jabari), your students, your devoted family, your fellow professors, your students, all those you touched in this life. My friend, indeed, until we meet again!
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It was the beginning of sophomore year when I was in one of Dr. Timothy’s classes, where I was handed a brochure on the winter session in Dubai with Dr. Teye. After convincing my parents, I couldn’t wait until New Years Day to depart with my other colleagues and Dr. Teye to Dubai. My entire experience in Dubai was unforgettable – from the information and knowledge we learned from Dr. Teye in the classroom, to the social experiences, to the site-visits of the beautiful locations near and far. This was also the location where I took one of my hardest Tourism classes – International Tourism – with Dr. Teye. I will never forget having to take a quiz and memorize all of the African countries and their capitals! Something I never thought I’d be able to do but with Dr. Teye’s instruction, anything seemed possible.
It was towards the end of our amazing winter abroad when Dr. Teye told me about his summer program going to Australia and Fiji. I instantly said “I’m in!” and couldn’t wait for the next semester to be over so I could go to Australia and Fiji with some more great students from ASU and Dr. Teye. The program in Australia and Fiji was just as magical. We learned so much from Dr. Teye while also being able to have some of the most fun in our lives – like bungee jumping, visiting the Great Barrier Reef, and more. However, one of the most unforgettable experiences I had was when I was able to celebrate my 20th birthday in Australia on one of our last nights. Dr. Teye helped us arrange a double decker bus and made sure I was going to have one of the best nights of my life. Dr. Teye and his beautiful wife, Anna, gave me a birthday card and sent us on our night out. It was truly, truly unforgettable.
Once I got back from both of these trips, I knew that Tourism was exactly the place I was meant to be. Dr. Teye always expressed his willingness to help me personally as well. He encouraged my fellow classmates and I to come to his office hours to help us with our resumes for internships and future jobs. His door was always open for us. Dr. Teye helped open my eyes to the world and to the different aspects that affect all of us before, during, and after traveling. He inspired me to go to places I would never think to go, and to learn things that I thought were beyond my boundaries. Since my double study abroad’s with Dr. Teye, I have graduated with my Bachelors Degree from Arizona State and have recently (as of this month) completed my Masters with Arizona State University in Sustainable Tourism. If it weren’t for that brochure being passed to me in Dr. Timothy’s class, I don’t know where I would be today. Dr. Teye helped me get there and I am so thankful for those moments I was able to spend with him that inspired me to be where I am today. I will never forget Dr. Teye and what he did for me during my time at Arizona State. I am so thankful.
]]>I was most priviledged to be a part of the pioneering tourism undergraduate class that Prof. Teye taught at the University of Cape Coast in 1996.
Prof left a very deep impression on all 14 of us. He was always referred to with awe and a deep sense of respect for his intellectual prowess. His time conciousness, hardwork and most importantly, willingness to shape the thinking process will forever be missed.
Prof, you have paid your dues to tourism education in Ghana and i guess the best tribute we can give to your memory is to continue in the footsteps you left.... if we can.
Sleep well...
Kwaku Boakye
Department of Hospitality and Touirsm Management
UCC
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Over the years we shared great memories, in Ghana, Germany and in Arizona.
Sadly, I lost touch with him and I regret not having contact for many years. I heard that he was ill and I prayed for him but I never expected him to die. I thought he was invincible !
A man of honour, great teacher, loving father, caring friend with a fabulous sense of humour !
Gone too soon my brother. Rest in peace. God bless.
Heartfelt sympathy to his family.
]]>My deepest condolences to Ms. Anna and the rest of the Teye family- my heart goes out to you.
Dr. Teye...thank you for the memories and thank you for having such an impact on my life and my career. I can never thank you enough for your guidance, your wonderful sense of humor and the infinte brilliance you gave to the thousands of students you taught. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I will miss you, always.
Love,
Carrie Canty
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